
To err is human, to forgive divine.
– Make no mistakes!
– Are you telling me that I don’t make a mistake? … that’s impossible! How many times have I been wrong? numerous, countless, although I would say not too many because they are never enough. Better tell me: «Do not regret!»
It’s not that I want to make a mistake, let me explain it to me, it is that doing it has been, is and will be, I am convinced, part of my learning process.
Who does not make mistakes is because they have not tried enough times, because they have not tried everything they could or should do… because let me tell you, one of the ways to learn for those who have not received the necessary tools to get the right way to navigate through life is trying again and again, making mistakes again and again, until things go well.
I do not say that we should be happy about it, I say it is part of a learning process that often has its root in ignorance, in not knowing how we should proceed to succeed much earlier and better, because we did not have the formula of wisdom to go forward without making mistakes, because nobody taught us better how to do it well and we had no choice but to learn from life in our own way, from the exit box where we were placed at birth.
So my advice for this week is: Do not regret your mistakes!, to err is human, just realize that you did not know more, that you did not know how to do it better because maybe life circumstances did not accompany you, because maybe nobody taught you. So if you see it from this point of view: from the point of view that although you did not do it well at times, you did not have the blame at all, that even though you were the protagonist they put you as an actor/actriss in a film that was not the that you would have chosen, that you did not have someone close to whom you cared enough to be reprimanded with love .. then you will understand that what you have to do is not only ask for forgiveness for what is not well done, as you were explained , but also, to forgive yourself for having worn over all those years all those pounds of guiltiness without analyzing in your backpack.
Throw your backpack to the sea, forgive yourself for what happened, realize that you have grown as a person and get rid of the sticky guilt that anchors you in the past and does not let you move forward. Drop all the ballast you carry and walk lightly towards what is to come. Take advantage of what you learned and give yourself up to live with all the enthusiasm, with all the freshness, with all the joy that every day gives you. The opportunity to amend what is done, to feel free, again you, free of remorse and completely willing to try to start again happy and without fear.
So, don’t tell me: Make no mistakes!… better say: Do not regret!, because or it was worth it or it’s over.
It’s 00:00, it will soon dawn and you …
You start today from 0.
